I admit it — I haven’t been in touch as much lately. Oh, I’ve been thinking about you, pretty much every day. It’s just so difficult to pick up the keyboard and start communicating, because I’m so afraid That Topic will come up. It’s like the elephant in the RV.
For a while, I thought that after, oh, early November or so, things would just calm down and I could sort out my thoughts and share how I feel. And even if you sharply disagreed — nothing surprises me any more — our common future would have been decided, and everyone would either celebrate or adjust, and move on, going on with whatever passes for business as usual in these troubled times.
But, with so much riding on the decisions we have to make, I can’t responsibly hold back any longer. I’ve got to take a position, and do my best to explain it, justify it.
I’m under no illusion that I’ll change anyone’s mind. Most of us probably made our choice months ago. Those who are undecided at this point likely just haven’t been paying attention, right? Because the choice is clear.
So, let me lay it out for you.
But first, I will say that this isn’t an easy choice. And I quite realize the likelihood that I’ll feel different by this time next year. Maybe I’ll regret my choice. Maybe you’ll take me to task.
And I certainly know that Follow Toto is not your go-to resource for this kind of perspective (or, for that matter, for anything else). So you can take it or leave it. But I’ve stayed silent long enough, and I think history tells us that those who kept quiet while things went nuts around them either lived to regret it or, even worse, didn’t truly live.
So here is my thinking:
- If we make the wrong choice, the atmosphere is just going to get noisier. More shouting, more interrupting, more people trying to drown one another out with sound.
- If we make the wrong choice, the environment will certainly suffer. For one thing, it’s going to be warmer. Downright hot.
- If we make the wrong choice, more and more people will keep behaving like children.
- If we make the wrong choice, it will be harder to reach the goals we have set for ourselves.
So Team Toto has made its choice. No, we’re not repealing and replacing our earlier strategy; and we’re not just making tweaks on the assumption that we can completely fix what was surely a flawed approach.
But we’re through debating. And we’re just. Not. Going. To Do. Summer. Camping. Any. More.
We’ll go shoulder season, even rainy season. It will be so much more peaceful. Quieter. Cooler. Easier to get coveted campsites.
Well. I feel better.
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Barbara says
Except next August right 😉
Laura P says
We don’t have our trailer yet (coming in Dec!), but we decided long time ago that we weren’t going to do summer camping as there’s too many noisy, drunk idiots out there that time of year. We’ll be as prepared as possible for colder weather and we’re going to enjoy what we’re hoping will be peace and quiet while camping.
Kurt says
Maybe you oughta consider boondocking. A couple well-placed solar panels, an inverter and some bigger batteries and yer all set. No crowds and its FREE!
Carla Jean says
Well, I can’t blame you. You never know who will be camping next to you, or close by, like screaming kids out for the summer, barking dogs, people walking through your campsite, etc. (grrr, my biggest pet peeve), but I agree with Kurt – boondocking can be very private, albeit more limiting in terms of facilities, and certainly not the number of areas as in the SW.
drpaddle says
Oh, well, gosh, I wasn’t altogether serious. And, yes, of course, we will be camping in August 2017 if we can get a site.
Now, about boondocking: Yes! We have solar, we have dual batteries, we’re self-contained. What we haven’t been able to do, readily, is figure out where to go. The state parks and some national forest campgrounds make it easy to find and reserve a spot (I guess that’s partly why they’re so popular in summer). But determining where to boondock in the NW…. I have looked around, but clearly I don’t know where or how to look.
I’d better look harder.
Val Perry says
OH MY GOODNESS, you are hilarious!!
Good luck finding your peace.
Carla Jean says
You and Sooz are camping warriors. Have you tried FreeCampsites.net? Some BLM, and other misc areas.
drpaddle says
I just checked it out. We will take a drive and check some of the closer places out, soon, on some day when there aren’t flood warnings everywhere. Thank you for the info!